Friendships That Last !
Friday, May 24, 2013 | 0 comments
Good friends can bring happiness to one's life . But friendships don't just happen . They have to be built and nurtured . What makes a good ? Here some tips thats would help in building healthy friendships .1- BE HONEST
Be yourself . Open up and tell your friends how you feel . When your friends know your feeling they will understands you better . You may thinks if you allow your friends to see your weaknesses , they will not like you . But it may not be true . You may be suprised to find friends who willing to helps you overcome your weaknesses .
2- BE CARING
It is the little acts of caring that keep a friendships going . Do you remember when you last called your friend to wish him/her 'Happy Birthday'? . Do you recall the last time you sent a card to wish your friend 'Good Luck'? If you do not , then it's time you picked up a card and sent it right away . This small act of yours will strengthen your friendships .
3- ALLOW FRIENDS TO BE THEMSELVES
When you are close to your friends , you begint o appreciated their strengths and notice their weaknesses . For examples , you admire a friends who likes to do charity works . At the same time , you notice that he/she is the 'slowcoach'.
Don't forget , you have too have your own strengths and weaknesses . So , you should accept your friends as themselves .
4- DON'T KEEP SCORE
As friends , do not count the number of times you do things for each other . You lend a hands because yoou really want to helps . It is always better to give than to receive . Consider what Robert Louis Stevenson said , '' A friend is a present that you gib=ve yourself ''.
( Adapted from 'How to build better friendship' by Sue Browder )
